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New Year’s resolutions: one attained, one broken

Thursday, January 31st, 2013

Back on New Year’s Eve 2012 I posted a story about the New Year 2013, and making resolutions. Personally I resolved to be more patient, and to be kind & compassionate this year. Then in the comments below I said I would also try to be practical and lose 5 lbs by the end of January. Click here for previous post.

Well, it is now January 31, and happily I can report that I have lost 5 lbs and I’m feeling much better.

How did I do it? I used the bathroom scale of course to verify results, but I mostly just set my mind to:

1) eating less or half portions
2) cutting back on sweets/desserts
3) exercising more (walking more, even up stairs in buildings instead of using elevators, and bicycling more)
4) trying not to eat past 7 p.m. at night (but I did fail & ate some left over spicy Asian chicken one evening which caused me heartburn & a sleepless night, so I will avoid that behavior again)

Additional tip: if you’re trying to lose weight, start small (with just 5 lbs, which is easier to attain) than to attempt to lose 20 lbs. immediately. And now I have to resolve to keep that extra 5 lbs off my person.

As for being patient, I failed that one two weeks ago by being somewhat impatient with a friend in playing mah jong. I will do better next time. Patience is definitely a virtue.

And I’m still working on being kind and compassionate throughout this year.

Let me know how you’re doing with your resolutions, for those of you who made them and remember what they were. Good luck. It takes perseverance and a positive attitude.

Ben’s Bells Celebration of Kindness

Thursday, April 26th, 2012

Ben’s Bells Project’s 2012 Celebration of Kindness will be held this year at their new downtown location. Order tickets online (click here).

Saturday, April 28th
6:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m.
Hosted at Ben’s Bells Downtown Studio
40 W. Broadway Blvd.

Tickets – $50.00
($60 at the door)
• Live Music
• Dancing
• Silent Auction
• Food
• Wine/Beer

Purchased tickets will be available at the “Will Call” table on the night of the event.

Our mission is to inspire, educate and motivate each other to realize the impact of intentional kindness and to empower individuals to act according to that awareness, thereby changing our world.

I’ve recently dropped by after listening to cases at Small Claims Court and sat there in their downtown studio painting ceramic flowers for the bell mobiles. It’s very relaxing and gives you a wonderful feeling to be part of a larger project to spread kindness. Try it sometime, just drop in:

Open Studio Hours:

Tuesday 10-5pm
Wednesday 10-5pm
Thursday 10-5pm
Friday 10-7pm
Saturday 10-5pm
Closed on Sunday and Monday

Ben’s Bells is at 816 E. University (Geronimo Plaza in Main Gate Square, east of Euclid Ave.) or downtown at 40 W. Broadway (just east of Church Ave.)

Grand opening of Ben’s Bells downtown

Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

Ben’s Bells is located at 816 E. University Blvd. in the Geronimo Plaza of Main Gate Square, just west of the UA. Now they are opening up a second location downtown, and the public is invited.

Friday January 20, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. grand opening celebration
40 W. Broadway (east of Church Ave.)

Schedule for the day of kindness:

10 a.m. Studio officially opens
11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
Open house
BYO Bag lunch
Music
Treats

5:30 p.m. to 7 p.m.
Ribbon cuttings
Music
Food/drink
Kindness all around

I reported on their annual “Kindness Day” last April, 2010 (click here for more background on Ben’s Bells and deceased toddler Ben Packard whom this program is named after).

Our mission is to inspire, educate and motivate each other to realize the impact of intentional kindness and to empower individuals to act according to that awareness, thereby changing our world.

I’ve been nominated for a Ben’s Bell, have volunteered to hand paint some of these bells, and on January 8, 2012 (the one year anniversary of the Tucson Tragedy mass shooting), I helped distribute bells along with 200 other people. It was a terrific feeling to drive around at sunrise to locate places to anonymously hang these lovely bell mobiles, in goodwill and hoping that whomever finds them can find some joy and kindness in their hearts.

Mailing address: PO Box 41025 Tucson, AZ 85717-1025
email: bensbells@bensbells.org
phone/fax: 520-628-2829

Be kind today and everyday.