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Life after Dieting; What Now that the Pounds are Gone?

by on Jun. 03, 2010, under Health

I went on my first diet when I was 11 years old.

After all, I knew it was time.  Well meaning folks had told me that I would never get a boyfriend if I was fat, or that my face was really pretty, but well, I really needed to lose weight if I ever wanted anyone to like me.  There was also the confused group who said, “How come you’re not thin like your sister?”

Sonja at the JW Marriott Hotel in Tucson, Arizona

Sonja at the JW Marriott Hotel in Tucson, Arizona

At the grocery store I saw little 3X4 Calorie Counting guides, and thought this would be a good place to start.  If I restricted myself to 1,000-1,200 calories a day, I thought that would do it.  I’d be thin in no time, winning the approval of others, and fitting into all the cute clothes I longed to wear.

Purchase in hand, I waited in line at the grocery store, then hurriedly tossed in a pack of gum along with the calorie-counting book so I wouldn’t attract too much attention.  Yes, I had come in for gum, and then decided to casually find out the calorie content of every kind of food available in the modern world.

At home, my parents were one of my strongest supporters.  Did you know that a regular-sized apple has 60 calories? A hard-boiled egg 80 calories?  They were fascinated. This was easy! I could even have a little bag of Cheetos for 180 calories, if I wanted to splurge.  I had to guess at a few things, like casseroles and spaghetti and soups.  Back in those days, not everything had the calories listed on them like today.

After a week, I had lost four pounds.  I was ecstatic.  My teacher at school told me he thought it looked like I had lost weight; music to my ears. After a week, my clothes were looser; my sister and parents were happy for me.  But I was tired of counting, and I wanted a cookie.  So I quit the diet.

I gained the four pounds back the next week.  And that’s how it all began.  For the better part of the next three decades, I went up and down with the same 10-20-30-40-50 pounds, going from diet to diet.  However, nine years ago I stopped all that — and that’s what Living Thin is all about.  I decided to start living my life like a thin person, gathering together all of what’s worked for me in all those years of dieting.  And now, I want to pass that information along to you.

Does this make me an expert in dieting? All I know is that I lost 50 pounds for the last time in 2001, and have kept it off ever since.  I wear cute clothes, feel good in bikinis, don’t cringe when I see myself naked in the mirror, know that my jeans are going to fit each and every time I put them on, have a husband who thinks I’m sexy — and I eat, drink and act like a thin person (which includes counting a calorie or two).
If I can help people with what I’ve learned over the years, then that’s what this blog is all about.  You may want to ask your doctor before you do anything I tell you to do in upcoming blogs; but it will be worth it.  The peace of mind I have every morning when I wake that I’m not going to step on the scale and have to lose those 50 pounds again is wonderful, and I want that for every person who has ever had to struggle with their weight on this planet.

That being said, frankly, it’s practical to know the calorie count of foods.  You have to know what you’re putting in your mouth!

A little reference guide to carry around with you is handy, until you get the hang of it.  You can also become an avid label reader.  Click here for great website that has a ginormous amount of calorie counts on various kinds of foods.

Click here for another website that figures out for you how many calories you should ingest each day for a person of your gender/height/weight, etc.

Next:  Myth buster; are all calories created equally?

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  • Denise

    Welcome to the blog.  I have a diet I’ve been on for many year – I call it, “I’ll start next week”.  I just need to lose 10 or 15 pounds to look like  I did ten years ago, but I just keep finding excuses to put it off.  So I’m looking forward to your blog for some motivation and tips.

    • http://www.sonjarose.com Sonja Rose

      I’ve been on that diet, too! Just remember that “nothing tastes as good as thin feels,” the next time you are tempted to put something in your mouth that you know won’t contribute to you weight-loss goals — and knowing how good you are going to feel 10-15 pounds from now. 

  • Ferraribubba

    Hey Sonja: Wow! Blonds seem to be made to ride in Ferraris, don’t you agree? Especially when they’re scooting away from some fancy resort in the mountains of Southern Arizona like the Marriott in a Ferrari in Italian Racing Red colors, like mine. <g>
    But I digress. For me, dieting, like anything else in life, it’s a matter of being honest with yourself.
    If you want to play games . . . you lose and stay where you are.
    I was a tubby 5’9″, 205# with a nice beer gut, and a 42″ waist. Not where I wanted to be by far.
    So I took the bull by the balls, so to speak, and did the following: (1. Cut out all booze. (2. No more seconds of anything. Period, (3. No more snacks. (4. Breakfast is skim milk, friut, juice, yogert, mellon. (5. Lunch: See breakfast. (6. Dinner: Mostly grilled meat, fish, chicken, veggies, rice.
    It took me less than 60 days to drop to 160-165 pounds, and that was 2 years ago. I’ve been in a holding pattern ever since, with the exception of special occasions of a Chinese Buffett, Southern BBQ, or Soul Food meal about once every two weeks as a reward.
    It’s just that simple.
    Yer pal, Ferrari Bubba

    • http://www.sonjarose.com Sonja Rose

      Ole, Ferrari Bubba! You have mastered the art of Living Thin – Congratulations! I especially love your “special occasions” meals, an absolute necessity when keeping in the holding pattern you speak of.

  • http://tucsoncitizen.com/karynzoldan Karyn Zoldan

    Sonja
    Welcome to Tucson Citizen blog-0-rama.
    I hope to be inspired here and look forward to reading your great information .
    I write the To Market to Market blog.
     

    • http://www.sonjarose.com Sonja Rose

      Thank you for the welcome message!

  • Eric

    Sonja – I love the blog, allot of good info… 

  • fraser007

    Lost 83 pounds! Having a quad bypass heart operation will motivate you in a hurry. It was a pre-emptive operation–no heart attack. Its the best way to do in. Actually scheduled it well ahead of time!
    I have gained a few back but doing well. My doctor put me on tha South Beach Diet. It works. After you shrink your stomach it will work! The mind is a powerful thing.
    By the way you are a fox!

    • http://www.sonjarose.com Sonja Rose

      Dear fraser007:
      Love the South Beach diet! It’s nicer than the Atkins diet, since you get fruits and veggies.  Congrats on the fantastic weight loss!

  • Mackie Short

    Mom,
    I love the new blog, you are going to help many people with your knowledge! This is good stuff, keep writing!
    Love,
    Mackie


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