Pizza must be savored!

Last weekend, my husband and I passed a woman walking down the sidewalk, holding a sandwich in her right hand.  She kept taking bites of it and I wanted to say “Stop! You’re not savoring!”

Next, next two ladies walked towards us holding paper plates with slices of pizza, eating as they walked.  Oh no!  The tragedy! Pizza is a treat, and must be eaten while sitting down, preferably in small bites, and chewed slowly.

Living Thin means ingesting only the amount of calories one needs in a day.  That amount is limited, so I like to enjoy each and every bite I put in my mouth.  Here are a few rules to help you enjoy food, and not overeat:

1)  Slow down.  Enjoy every bite.  Chew food slowly.  Food can only be tasted while it’s in the mouth. After it goes down into the stomach, the pleasure of eating is over.

2) Sit down and eat.  Make eating an event.  Use plates and silverware.  Cut food up into little bites; it feels like you get to eat more.

3)  No walking and eating.  Our bodies need to send oxygen to muscles for walking, not digesting.  It’s harder to chew and eat while walking — much harder to savor.   Wait until there’s more time to eat.

Sonja at Trail Dust Town in Tucson, after savoring lunch at the Dakota Cafe

5)  No mindless eating in front of the TV.  It’s easy to eat an entire bag of chips or cookies and wonder where they all went — which could be an entire day’s allotment of calories.  Either bring one portion to eat, then stop, or quit this habit altogether.

Read:  Why French Women Don’t Get Fat; 10 Tips; Find out what author Mireille Guiliano has to say about savoring food, and how French women eat whatever they want – and stay thin.

Are "they" trying to keep people fat?

The diet industry rakes in $59.7 billion dollars a year.  Keeping one-third of Americans overweight is a very lucrative business.   Dieters need to beware of ways the diet industry may want to pull — and keep, the wool over our eyes, such as:

1) Using words like “Fat Free” on packaging, tricking dieters into thinking they are eating less calories.  For example, Yoplait advertises their yogurt as ”99% fat free;” however, one container has 170 calories.  Dannon Fit ’N Light Yogurt only has 60 calories per container; it’s what I eat every morning for breakfast.  Did you know that if you eat 100 more calories than you burn in a day, you will gain one pound in a month, or 12 pounds in a year — or 120 pounds in 10 years?  It adds up.

2) Watch out for clothing retailers that trick people into feeling thinner than they really are, by

Sonja in Haleiwa, Hawaii, August 2011

making them fit into “smaller” sized clothes — or so it says so on the tags.  Old Navy is mentioned on MetaFilter as one of these, with women saying they fit into a size 4 or 6, when they are 8s and 10s anywhere else.  Men are quoted as saying the clothing there is “wildy big,” and while they are a large or XL at all other stores, at Old Navy they are a medium.  I think this sets people up to think they can now eat more because they feel thinner — and, of course, they will want to shop at the store with the “smaller” size.

3) The very lucrative $59.7 billion-dollar weight loss industry, and all the diet programs that go along with it (I know, I have probably been on every diet out there).  They all work.  I even lost my final 50 pounds on a nationally known diet, and bought food, products and supplements from them.  It’s not the diet, I have found, it’s living thin and keeping it off afterwards that is tricky.  Eighty to ninety percent of dieters gain their weight back after they quit dieting.  The diet industry keeps dangling new diets in front of our noses, telling us what was wrong with the last diet, and telling us why the new diet is going to work.  Aren’t we smarter than that?  Quit financing the diet industry, and live thin, my friends!

It's fun to wear nice clothes and feel pretty.

We all know about the health benefits of losing weight  (lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol, control or eliminate diabetes, helps joint and arthritic pain, etc.), but still one-third of people are overweight in the United States.  It must not be motivating enough, or else everyone would be thin — right?

What are the other benefits, the ones that keep you going when all you feel like doing is eating everything on your plate even though you are way past full, or you have one of those ”all-I-feel-like-doing-is-devouring-a-bacon-double-cheeseburger-and-large-order-of-fries-with-a-chocolate-shake-because-I-can’t-take-one-more-salad” kind of days?

Here are the real benefits to being thin, with enough motivation and inspiration to keep you going no matter what!

1) Fun clothes to to wear.  It’s so much more fun to show off a cute figure if you are at your happy weight.

2)  You fit nicely into an airplane seat.

3)  You can sit on any kind of furniture without fear of breaking it.

4)  You fit nicely into a movie theater seat.

5)  You can wear any necklace, bracelet, ring or watch you desire.

6)  You fit nicely into a booth in a restaurant.

7) You no longer worry about stares or comments from people about your weight; if anything they will be telling you how good you look!

Sonja, enjoying the beach in Haleiwa, Hawaii, with her son, Mackie

8)   At job interviews, you don’t have to worry if being overweight will be a factor in deciding whether or not you will get the position.

9)  If you are trying to date, being thin helps.

10)  It is easier to keep a thin body clean.

11)  It’s easier to go to the bathroom.

12)  It’s easier to have sex. Sex is better.

13) It’s easier to enjoy any kind of physical activity that is fun, like riding a bike, taking a walk, swimming, hiking a trail, etc.

15)  You can go up a flight of stairs without feeling like you are going to die.  You might even seek out the stairs, because it is good exercise and will burn calories.

16)  You eat in front of people now, not worrying what they might be thinking.

17)  You are happy to see people you haven’t seen in a long time, not worried anymore about what they might be thinking of your weight gain.  You are thin now.

18) If you have suffered from sleep apnea, it gets better now, maybe even goes away entirely, and breathing at night gets easier (OK, this is technically kind of a health one, but who doesn’t want to get a good night’s sleep?)

19) You fit into a cars nicely.

20)  You will most definitely like yourself better, and feel better about things —  everything.

What’s on your list?

Remember, nothing tastes as good as thin feels!

Sonja, summer of 2011, Utah mountains

One thing I did after losing fifty pounds ten years ago was give away all my fat clothes.  My closet used to range in clothing sizes 8-18, perfect for a person used to yo-yo dieting for most of her life.  Getting rid of the larger-sized clothing was a huge commitment – it said, “this time, I’m going to stay thin.”

After reaching your “happy weight,” just go ahead and do it.  Get some new clothes to show off that new figure, and dispose of those larger-sized clothes.  Here are some ideas:

1)  Bag them up and take them to a donation site like Goodwill, Deseret Industries, the Veterans Association, your local church or any place looking for clothing.  Many will come and pick them up at your house.

2)  Take the clothes to a consignment store, where you can receive some money, nice when you are going to be spending a bit on a new wardrobe for your new figure! (but oh so worth it!).

Buffalo Exchange consignment & thrift clothing store

3)  Invite a friend to go through your bags before they go to the donation site, if it would make you feel better if your clothes went to a good home.

4)  Alter something only if it’s worth it to you.

When you go through your closet and drawers, be ruthless.  Get rid of everything that is too big now.  Baggy clothes do not look good!  Besides, you worked hard to lose weight, and it’s time to show off. 

Only having thin clothes in your closet is a huge commitment, and can be a bit scary.  But it shows that you are now living the thin lifestyle, and that is who you are now — a thin person, now and for the rest of your life!

Read:  “Act Like a Thin Person,” and “Think Like a Thin Person.” 

For other ideas:  “Yo-Yo Dieting: Stop the Insanity!” and “Life After Dieting; What Now, That the Pounds Are Gone?”

Read the labels to know for sure

How many sneaky diet words can you think of that are designed to pull the diet-wool over our eyes so we think we are eating better?

Low Calorie.  Low Carb. Low Fat. Organic.

A study published in the Journal of Consumer Research reported that when “diet words” are used, it actually caused people to eat more, especially dieters, since they are focused on trying to eat less forbidden foods. Non-dieters were less likely to fall for the “diet words.”

Most dieters assume that if it has a healthy name, then it is.  Wrong.  There’s no way to know unless you read the label.

Recent research also suggests that organic food benefits from a “halo” effect, tricking people into thinking it’s healthier, that there is significantly less calories and fat and more fiber in organic food — also not necessarily true.

Sonja by fountain in Las Vegas

These foods can be the exact same thing:

Fruit Chews = Candy Chews

Veggie Chips = Potato Chips

Fruit Smoothie = Milkshake

Salad = Pasta

Can you think of others? 

Before you buy something because it has one of those words on it, read the label first.  Read Harvard Study Reveals “Calories In, Calories Out” because no matter what you eat, that’s what it boils down to when trying to lose or maintain weight.  Don’t let the sneaky words, designed to coax even more money out of your already diet-weary wallet, get  you.

MyPlate Replaces Food Pyramid

MyPlate is the latest in over 100 years of nutritional guidance from the USDA (United States Department of Agriculture).

1894: USDA’s first dietary guidelines are published by Dr. Wilbur Olin Atwater, as a farmer’s bulletin.

1916: USDA publishes its first food guide, Food for Young Children.

1943:  The Basic “7″

1956: The Basic “4″ (Milk, meats, breads, fruits & vegetables).

1992: The Food Guide Pyramid

2005: MyPyramid (added the suggestion of physical activity for health).

2011: MyPlate

MyPlate is meant to inspire the public to make correct eating choices, especially in supermarkets and restaurants.  First Lady Michelle Obama and Agriculture Secretary Tom Vilsack made the announcement the first of June 2011.  The icon will be placed on food packaging and in nutrition education in the United States.

Since Michelle Obama is actively involved in the “Let’s Move” program, aimed at ending childhood obesity, the re-naming of the Food Pyramid may have had something to do with re-naming it “MyPlate” aimed at all ages. 

Food Pyramid

MyPlate recommends making half of your selections fruits and vegetables; this is my favorite part.  It’s not so helpful for people who are lactose intolerant, abstain from dairy, or for people from other cultures who do not drink milk beyond infancy.  It is also not helpful for vegetarians, vegans, or those following low-carb, high-protein diets like Atkins. 

As for people like me, who believe in the Harvard Study for weight maintenance (read: “Calories In, Calories Out”), it’s not telling me much more than I didn’t already learn from my beloved Food Pyramid.  However, if it helps those who need instruction on healthy choices, and children learning about healthy choices, then I’m all for it.  Thank you again, Michelle.

I also find it slightly amusing that things are ever-changing in the world of diet opinion. For example, we used to think egg yolks were bad for us; now we can eat the whole egg with wild abandon.   Avacados used to be bad because they are high in fat; now we hear it’s “good” fat; (I say they make my coat shiny); and now, last month a study was released saying salt is okay after a University in Belgium studied 3,681 people over a period of 7.9 years and found that salt didn’t hurt their health at all.

How about: Everything in moderation (has that been said before?)

Your thoughts?

Eat healthy foods

Weight loss is not something that happens and then you’re done with it. There have been over thirty studies done on dieters that have lost weight; the majority gain it back.  Read “Yo-Yo Dieting; Stop the Insanity!” because I was one of the people who did that, until eleven years ago.

Here are 7 secrets that can turn weight control into a lifestyle, and help turn those hard-earned lost pounds into forever-lost pounds:

1) Weigh yourself daily. (read: The Bathroom Scale: Friend or Foe?)

2) Exercise.  Walk for 20-30 minutes, 3-7 times a week. Add some weight training, even 20-30 countertop push-ups on a regular basis.  More is even better. Just stay active.

3) Stay accountable.  Have a weight maintenance buddy.  Keep a food journal. Whatever works for you.

4) Stay motivated.  Think about yourself in that bikini.  Those tight jeans.  Naked.  Whatever works.

5) Eat breakfast.  Mine is 60-calorie yogurt and 1/2 grapefruit.  Every day.

6) Adopt Lifelong Weight Maintenance Methods (live thin!).  Read all my blogs.  Choose the ones that work for you. 

Mackie's graduation, May 2011 (proud mom, Sonja)

 

7) Don’t fall back into unhealthy eating habits. 

Throw out the Little Debbie Nutty Bars and Jeno’s Pizza Rolls.  They just don’t fit this lifestyle anymore!

Traci Mann, UCLA Associate Professor and lead researcher who studied all the studies of people who lost weight, says the truth is that the majority of people who lose weight on a diet will gain it back.  Sometimes gaining even more weight than before. Oh, the insanity!

According to one study, from the Archives of Internal Medicine, subjects who had slimmed down still need to exercise every day, and continue to closely watch what they eat, to sustain weight loss. 

A 2009 Finnish study published in the International Journal of Obesity, tracked 16 same-sex twin pairs (chosen because they had the same genetic makeup) for decades and found that the twin who had been more physically active over a 32-year period accumulated 50 percent less belly fat than the twin who didn’t exercise. 

I watch what I eat every day of my life.  If I’m up on the scale, I get back down — immediately. It’s called “living the thin lifestyle,” and it’s what this blog is all about.  Easy? No.  Worth it? Yes! (read: Nothing Tastes as Good as Thin Feels).

Matthew Ruiz (left), an exercise science instructor at Huntington University, measures the height of Andrews Elementary School student Jagger Underwood while HU student Mariah Town records the numbers. They were assisting in a study to record the heights and weights of students across Indiana to get a composite picture of the state.

When I heard they had brought back the public weighing of students in the school gyms of some elementary schools, it brought back all kinds of memories.

“Hey, Fatso,” the boy said to me, as we waited in line to be weighed and measured.  We were in fourth grade at Longfellow Elementary, 1971, and this was a dreaded annual occurence, especially for overweight girls like me.  Deep down, I only wanted boys to like me.

This set off the boy next to him.  “Yeah, Tub ‘o Lard! Why don’t you go on a diet or somethin’?” Both boys then went off into a fit of giggles, and I averted my eyes and tried to ignore them like my mom had told me.  “Kids can be so cruel,” she said.

Being twenty pounds overweight at nine years old seemed devastating, and I felt like there was something horribly wrong with me.  By the time I was eleven, I went on my first diet to lose weight — followed by almost thirty years of yo-yo dieting.  Ten years ago I decided to stop, and simply live a thin lifestyle (see: Yo-Yo Dieting; Stop the Insanity!), and have kept off 50 pounds since then.

It’s with mixed emotions that I look at elementary schools that have started this public weighing and measuring again in the school gyms.  Do they have proof that it helps children with their weight, or eating habits?  Where are all those kids from my fourth-grade class of 1971?  Did they follow the path of diet insanity, or did it teach them to be thin for life?  And how can they have accurate height and weight charts for children at any age group, since all kids grow at different rates until they reach their adult height?

I like a more positive approach, like Michelle Obama’s “Let’s Move” campaign, started over a year ago,

Sonja and son Mackie, who didn't ever get weighed and measured in the school gym

that gets kids moving.  One in three kids are overweight in the United States. Making physical activity fun, and teaching kids good eating habits like stopping when you’re full, and making healthy choices, goes a lot farther than potentially publicly humiliating them in front of their peers in a school gym.  

The only way I can ever see weighing and measuring an overweight student is if it was done in private, behind closed doors like in the nurse’s office, with the parent and child’s permission, and with a helpful and encouraging spirit — and tips on how to life thin for life. Your thoughts?

Looks tasty - but is it?

The cheesecake at Macaroni Grill looked tasty enough as the waitress set it down on the table.  My husband and I dived our forks into it, hopeful as ever; we rarely order dessert, so it was a treat.  I placed the creamy goodness on my tongue. Then, ewww!  It didn’t taste good.

The rule is then: Stop eating the cheesecake.

It’s hard to do, though, sometimes, isn’t it?  After all, we paid for it! And we didn’t feel like complaining, so when the waitress came by, with the inevitable, “How is it!?” smiling at us, big grin from ear to ear, we just lied (she probably wondered why we didn’t eat another bite and left the rest on the table).

How can something that looked so pretty taste so disgusting?

One thing I have learned in all my years of weight loss and weight maintenance is that since I only get a certain amount of calories each day, I am pretty picky about how am going to spend them every day (see: Calories; Like Money in the Bank, How Are you Going to Spend Them Each Day?) .

This rules applies now for me at restaurants, at other people’s homes, at my own home, at work — whenever I place a bite of food on my tongue I ask myself the question — do I really, really like this? 

Paul and Sonja on Waikiki Beach, Hawaii

If I try something new at a restaurant, what if I don’t like what I ordered after it arrives?  I can eat the part of the meal that I do like, beg my husband for part of his meal, order something else, and not worry (after all, we are not exactly starving in the United States.  There’s an obesity epidemic going on).  Or, I can simply order something that I know I’m going to love to begin with.

When I began my investigation in how to think and act like a thin person, I realized I needed to become more of a picky eater in order to maintain a 50-pound weight loss (see: Be a Picky Eater; Only Eat Foods You Love). And that means only eating foods I love — and discarding all the rest.

Only eat the muffin top!

Is there a magic formula for keeping a weight loss off for life?  

Here are some odd things I do that have helped me maintain a 50-pound weight loss since 2001(I would also love to hear some of your weird weight maintenance ideas).

1)  Muffins.  Only eat the top.  Then throw the rest away.  Muffins are treats, and I won’t deny myself one if I really want one.  I simply eat the top (that’s where all the good stuff is), and don’t feel guilty if I throw the rest away.   

2) Do combo meals.  Combine breakfast/lunch, or lunch/dinner.  I find this easier to do on weekends, whenever I’m a little out of routine.  It helps save calories.  This means eating only two meals a day, instead of three.  This is easy to do if I have slept in and by the time I eat breakfast it’s almost time for lunch (breakfast/lunch), or by the time I eat lunch it’s fairly close to dinner (lunch/dinner).  Who made up that three-meals-a-day rule anyway?

3)  Skip a meal every now and then.   For example: If I eat too much at lunch, I don’t eat dinner.  On days like that, my husband will be a good sport and fix something for himself, and I miss the calories of dinner that night.  And no weight gain on the scale for me the next day.

4) Use salsa for salad dressing.  This a great calorie saver.  I use it at Chipolte fast-food Mexican

Sonja and son, Mackie, visiting Mom & Dad's farm in Colorado, March 2011

restaurant, on grilled chicken salads, or at home.  I love salsa and will look for any excuse possible to eat it, so this is an easy, low-calorie, low-fat, tasty option.

5)  Find a favorite, low-cal snack.  My favorite snack is 10 salted almonds and a small can of V-8.  It’s only 100-120 calories, satisfying, heart-healthy — and doesn’t make me gain weight.  I eat that snack morning and afternoon.  Read “Confessions of a V-8 Addict” for more information and a funny video.

6)  Eat a “safe” breakfast and lunch 4-5 days a week. Have low-cal yogurt (60 calories) and 1/2 grapefruit for breakfast; salad with six different kinds of vegetables and 3 ounces of turkey for lunch, 4-5 days per week.  If I stick with this, the weight stays off — if I vary it too much, I’m in trouble. Why mess with the formula?  

7)  Have treats.   I love Peanut M&Ms every now and then, 250 calories a bag. It helps me break the deprivation  ”Binge/Diet” cycle.  You gotta have treats.

8)  Dance.  Whenever you can, do something fun — like dance!  You don’t have to go anywhere official — just remember to have a good time.   My husband and I like to dance out on the back porch, or around the pool table when we play pool upstairs at our house.  My friend, Wendy, likes to crank up the tunes while she cleans the house.  Dancing burns calories, and makes you happy.  Perfect for living the thin lifestyle!