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Citizen was community service, not a job

Saturday, May 16th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer
Farewell

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

When I was a child, there was little love in our family for journalists.

My grandfather, a federal judge in Tucson, spoke of newspaper reporters who botched the facts, or twisted them to fit the story.

When I told Grandpa that I yearned to be a journalist, he did a pretty good job disguising what must have been disappointment. He loved us so much and would never have discouraged our dreams.

I knew from the time I started my “Dear Gabby” column in the student newspaper at St. Michael’s Parish Day School that I wanted to be a journalist.

I wanted to tell people’s stories.

I walked into the Citizen newsroom Jan. 7, 1985, as a journalism student at the University of Arizona.

I knew I was home.

The image of the adrenaline-charged editors jumping up from the news desk to yell “Stop the presses,” still brings a shiver.

My early days were spent filing photo negatives and answering phones. Then I became a real reporter. I covered cops and courts. I covered Mexico. I wrote breaking news and in-depth projects. I was doing what I dreamed of, telling the stories of people in the city I was born and raised in, the city my ancestors lived and died in.

I became assistant city editor, and later assistant features editor.

Then came the babies. After becoming a mom, I worked out a deal that allowed me to work part-time, mostly from home. I wrote about fetal alcohol syndrome. I wrote about drug-addicted parents. I wrote about violent children.

They are unforgettable, these stories of a lifetime.

There was the elderly woman, dressed in black and clutching rosary beads as she prayed at the base of a mountain of rubble in the heart of Mexico City.

Her daughter’s family lived in a high rise that tumbled during an early morning earthquake that left more than 10,000 dead. She prayed for a miracle that somehow her family had escaped.

It was a miracle that never came.

There was the hulking, blind man with mental illness who was led shuffling and shackled into the courtroom after voices in his head told him to kill his mother, whom he said had inflicted cruelty upon him for decades.

There was a young woman with all her possessions piled into an abandoned shopping cart as she headed to a shelter after completing rehab. Free from methamphetamine after a 13-year addiction, she was starting a new life for her and her boys.

There were the heroes, too many to count.

Gail Leland was the first hero I met along the way. Her 14-year-old son Richard was murdered in 1981, and his killer was never caught.

Gail and her best friend, Gloria Fritz, helped others going through their same hell. Gloria’s adorable 7-year-old daughter, Cathy, was murdered in 1982.

The two moms sat in their living rooms and talked with other parents who had lost children to murder. Today, 27 years later, Gail continues her mission, always missing her friend, Gloria, who died from cancer in 2000. Through Parents of Murdered Children and now Homicide Survivors, Gail has helped thousands of Tucsonans devastated by the murder of a loved one.

There was quiet rancher Jim Corbett, who was prosecuted for helping Salvadorans fleeing violence in their homeland. He offered food and shelter to the tormented.

There was Teresa Kellerman, who 31 years ago adopted John, a baby with fetal alcohol syndrome. What started as a mom advocating for services for her son led to Teresa educating people around the globe about the permanent brain damage caused when a pregnant woman drinks alcohol.

There were Laura and Bill Henderson. When Laura said her prayers at night, she would ask God to let her live long enough to see her grandsons into adulthood. The couple, in their 70s and 80s, were helping with homework, packing lunches and carting kids around after the boys’ parents could not care for them.

The Hendersons were among thousands of Tucson grandparents left to raise children, usually when parents are lost to addiction, incarceration, mental illness or death. They found help and a family at the KARE Family Center in Tucson.

There was Mark Loebe, a young man struggling to figure out who he was. He had pieced together his past, one in which he was so terribly beaten as an infant that he nearly died.

But he survived, and was adopted. Mark dreams of someday becoming a dad. For now, he helps other youngsters who have been abused.

They are the stories that live in my heart, and in the Tucson Citizen archives. I am forever grateful to those who shared their lives with me.

It has been a privilege to write about the city I love so dearly. I am thankful for my grandfather, my parents, my brother, my husband and my three children for all their love and support, as well as my incredible Citizen family.

I hope I made you proud, Grandpa.

Summertime and the reading is easy

Friday, May 15th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Finding a cool spot to get lost in a good book is one of the best ways to survive a Tucson summer.

The “bookmarm,” as she calls herself, at A Children’s House of Books wants to connect Tucson kids with great reading to help beat the heat.

“I want to foster literacy in the community,” said retired teacher Pat James, owner of the children’s used book shop at 2624 N. First Ave.

James, who opened A Children’s House of Books six months ago, has transformed the spot into a charming, colorful hideaway, with children’s art on the walls. A brightly colored paper dragon, created by students at Miles Exploratory Learning Center, hangs from the ceiling.

There is a dress-up chest, vintage toys and about 5,000 books for children up to about age 13 to choose from. Nearly all are used. Some belonged to her children, now grown.

James wants to make it easy for children to get books. Families can trade in books or pay half the list price.

She is hosting Trading Day from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. May 22-23. Families can trade cans of food, to be donated to the Community Food Bank, for books.

“Bring in a can of food and get a book, or bring in a book and get a can of food,” James said.

James, who retired from Tucson Unified School District in 2004, also offers teaching resources.

She wanted to spread her love of reading to kids in the neighborhood. She offers story time at 11 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays, along with tutoring and special events.

“It’s very important for families to have books in the house and to be reading to children,” she said.

LIBRARY SUMMER READING KICKS OFF

Kids, teens and adults can join the free summer reading club at Pima County Public Library, winning prizes and taking part in hundreds of educational activities.

“Be Creative @ Your Library” runs May 21 through July 18.

The calendar of events is available at all branch libraries.

Children can pick up a free “Be Creative @ Your Library” game board at any branch and use the game board to keep track of how many hours they read. They can also log their minutes online at library.pima.gov.

For every six hours spent reading, children earn prizes. All those who read 24 hours by July 18 will receive a certificate and a ticket for four people to the Tucson Toros baseball game at Hi Corbett Field on July 26. Six hours of extra reading will earn the child a pass to Breakers Water Park and a free paperback book.

The reading program for teens, called “Rock a Book,” is open to ages 12 to 18. They can earn coupons for local businesses and other prizes for every 10 hours spent reading. Prizes include a $10 gift certificate to Bookmans and a backstage pass to the “Rock a Book” band finale, where they can watch bands in the Main Library’s garage. Teens can register online at library.pima.gov or go to their neighborhood library for details.

Adults can list, rate and review books online, earning chances in weekly drawings for $5 Bookmans’ credit slips. Those who read 20 hours will earn a reusable book bag and a pass with discounts to Pima County attractions. Those who read 30 hours by July 18 will be entered into a drawing for a $100 credit voucher at Bookmans.

IF YOU GO

What: Trading Day at A Children’s House of Books. Bring in a can of food and take home a book, or bring in books to trade

Where: 2624 N. First Ave.

When: 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. May 22-23

Price: free admission

Info: 822-8211

‘Festival de Rebozos’ wraps up shawl’s colorful history

Friday, May 8th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Rebozos, the colorful, woven scarves that date back to the 1500s and have been featured in songs and poetry, are a symbol of Mexican culture.

Among the most famous aficionados of rebozos was Mexican painter Frida Kahlo.

The Tucson Museum of Art will celebrate the history of these eye-catching accessories at the “Festival de Rebozos, The Beautiful Shawls of Mexico,” from May 5-10.

The Latin American Art Patrons who support the museum will present the festival. Included is an educational program for schools, with presentations by Armandina Cruz, director of the Casa del Rebozo of Guadalajara, Mexico.

The week will culminate with two public events:

• A Gala Celebration of Music and Dance, 6 p.m. May 9, featuring Mexican appetizers and a program on the history of rebozos in music, poetry and dance. Mariachi Luz de Luna and Folklorico San Juan will perform. A fashion show demonstrating the ways to wear rebozos will be included. Tickets are $30 per person.

• Mother’s Day/Dia de las Madres family celebration, noon to 4 p.m. p.m. May 10. Families can bring in rebozos for evaluation and watch a master weaver demonstrate her craft.

There will be booths selling aguas frescas, churros and paletas, and a photo booth for a family portraits. Admission is free.

Both events will be at the museum, 140 N. Main Ave.

Rebozos can be woven in cotton, silk, cotton and silk or artisela rayon. Their long, narrow rectangular ends are knotted and fringed. The scarve can be worn as an everyday wrap or as a fashion accessory for evening wear.

Handmade rebozos will be for sale, with proceeds to benefit Latin American Art programs, exhibits and acquisitions at the museum.

For more information, call 624-2333.

Proposed cuts threaten lifelines for seniors

Friday, May 8th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer
STATE BUDGET

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Just as more older Tucsonans need help with basic necessities – food and a safe place to live – the agency that cares for the aging in Pima County is facing crippling budget cuts.

Expected cuts of about $3.8 million statewide, if approved by the Arizona Legislature, could gut programs that allow seniors to live safely in their own homes, said Jim Murphy, president and CEO of the Pima Council on Aging.

The proposal under consideration in the House could mean about $760,000 in cuts to PCOA, on top of another $413,000 in cuts earlier this year, requiring a reduction in services and staff, Murphy said.

“The services were never sufficient to support people before, and now we are facing massive budget cuts,” said Diana Edwards, a program director at PCOA.

“We’ve been successful in keeping people on the brink. But now as our funding is jeopardized, they’re going to fall over, and what are we going to do?”

State Sen. Jonathan Paton knows budget cuts will hurt vulnerable seniors, but he said lawmakers are hamstrung by the economy.

“It’s absolutely difficult to make these decisions, affecting people in a vulnerable situation,” the Tucson Republican said. “You’re choosing between seniors and kids and neither choice is easy.”

The Legislature is forced to fund a $10 billion budget with $6.5 billion, he said, and cuts are unavoidable.

For PCOA, cuts may mean a reduction in services that include emergency home repair, transportation, personal hygiene services, mortgage counseling, job training and other help. The agency serves thousands of Pima County seniors and their family caregivers.

“What is that train wreck that is coming just around the corner?” Edwards asked. “What’s that going to look like? We know it’s going to be messy and ugly and there’s nothing we can do to prevent it.”

She worries that with some clients, cuts in services are a matter of life and death.

“It’s who lives and who dies, literally, because we’re talking about food and shelter,” she said.

Many seeking help since the economic downturn have been self-sufficient all their lives, she said. Some live in high-end retirement neighborhoods and have lost investments and retirement income.

“We’re seeing people who have never needed help before,” Edwards said. “They’re desperate.”

PCOA official: Cuts more costly in long run

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

For 42 years, Pima Council on Aging has helped older Tucsonans with services they need to survive.

Last year, the agency provided nearly 375,000 meals, 22,000 rides, hundreds of emergency home repairs and countless baths, housekeeping services and other help.

The agency operates on a budget of about $8.3 million, with 85 percent provided by federal, state, county and city funding, said Jim Murphy, president and CEO of PCOA.

Based on a bill passed by the Appropriations Committee in the Arizona House of Representatives Tuesday, the agency expects to lose about $760,000 in funding from the state this coming fiscal year, Murphy said. It lost another $413,000 from the state in March.

Under the current budget, PCOA received about $3.2 million in state funds. For the fiscal year that starts July 1, that amount could be $2.5 million.

“We know we’re going to have to reduce services and staff,” Murphy said.

PCOA is the designated Area Agency on Aging, coordinating services for older adults and their families through local agencies. The services allow older Tucsonans to stay in their homes longer.

Murphy said program cuts will be more costly in the long run. “By providing these services, we are able to delay on an average of three years folks going into care,” he said.

While a nursing home for an indigent senior can cost the state $3,500 per month, PCOA services cost about $250 to $300 per month, Murphy said.

With the spiraling economy and increases in foreclosures and unemployment, PCOA is getting more requests for help.

“People are calling in and saying they have never had to seek services, but they now need help to buy food or even to pay for their homeowners association fee,” said Debra Adams, chief operating officer at PCOA.

Many are distraught when they find there are not enough services.

“People assume there has been a social safety net,” said Diana Edwards, a program director at PCOA. “There never was much of a net. It had great big giant holes. And now it’s a thread and people are shocked.”

In the past couple of years, growing numbers of seniors have taken in adult children who have lost jobs, or they are raising grandchildren.

“That Social Security check has covered the older person, but it’s not going to stretch for the added mouths to feed,” Edwards said.

While state dollars are dwindling, it appears federal dollars are stable. But often state dollars are used as a required match for federal funding, which could jeopardize some grants, Adams said.

The good news, according to the agency, is that nutrition programs, including delivered meals, appear to be safe for now. Stimulus dollars have been earmarked for senior nutrition.

But Adams said cuts will force agencies to make difficult choices.

“Is it more important to bathe people? Is it more important to repair their homes? Is it more important to make sure they can stay on Medicare? Is it more important to help caregivers? How do we decide who gets the service and who doesn’t?”

She said families are not looking for handouts.

“Take the person who’s providing everything for his father except for the twice weekly bath,” Adams said. “That’s all they’re asking. They are not looking for freebies.”

Not enough money for homes needing repairs

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

The roof on the old trailer leaks, and the swamp cooler hasn’t worked in years.

A shattered window is boarded up, and bare wires on the roof pose a fire hazard.

The toilet in the tiny bathroom wobbles precariously.

The home of Billy and Loma Brown is in desperate need of repair.

“Things are really falling apart, and I can’t fix this on my own,” says homeowner Billy Brown, 71, who is ill and disabled. For 35 years, he has lived in the South Side trailer with his wife, Loma, 70.

Thanks to Pima Council on Aging, the Browns got help this week fixing up some of the more urgent problems, allowing them to live safely in their own home.

But expected cuts in state funding to PCOA could leave older Tucsonans like the Browns with nowhere to turn for help.

“It’s so hard to find people who will help you out, and it sort of leaves you stranded,” said Loma Brown, who survives with her husband on about $1,100 in Social Security each month.

Last year, PCOA provided emergency home repair grants of up to $750 per household to 683 Pima County residents. It also provided grants of up to $4,000 to 65 residents for more major repairs.

Most of the people receiving the home repairs – 77 percent – were older women.

But budget cuts threaten to gut the program.

Volunteers Kristi Bowman and Dan Portice with the nonprofit organization Community Home Repair Projects of Arizona spent a couple of days at the Browns’ trailer. PCOA contracts with the agency to do repairs.

They replaced the motor and pump on the swamp cooler and rewired it. They patched the leaky roof.

They fixed the window and installed grab bars in the bathroom to prevent Billy Brown from falling as he gets in and out of the tub. Twice the fire department has been called to help him up.

“This helps out a whole lot,” said Brown, who became medically disabled in 1980 after several on-the-job injuries at a transportation company.

Bowman said there are more people who need help than there are grants.

“It gives me a whole different perspective on what it means to have a roof over your head,” she said of her volunteer work.

Agency seeing more suicides as elderly lose homes, hope

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

They come to Pima Council on Aging hoping mortgage counseling will save their homes from foreclosure.

But it soon becomes obvious that some seniors are nearing the end of their rope.

Mortgage counselors at PCOA “will see four or five people a day who say if something can’t be done, I’m going to kill myself,” said Donna Carender, who heads training through the Older Adults Suicide Prevention program at PCOA.

She worries that recent economic troubles combined with health problems and isolation many seniors experience are resulting in more suicides.

Tucson has the third highest suicide rate in U.S., out of 54 large metro areas, and the older you are, the more at risk you are, Carender said.

“It’s going to get worse,” she said. “We’re hearing more and more people that are losing everything. Older adults had enough stressors on them in the first place. To take more stressors and not have an idea of where to go to get help, we’re going to see (suicide rates) jump really high.”

Carender trains social workers, meal delivery volunteers, home health care workers, family members and others on what to look for in a suicidal senior.

She also trains people to do interventions. Some take place at the PCOA office.

She said if a senior can be connected with solutions to problems, often the desperation can be alleviated.

Carender advises people about how to talk to seniors about suicide, using the word, so seniors can identify who they would tell if they were considering it.

“Most people don’t want to be dead. They just don’t want to be alive right now,” she said. “We don’t want them to take that step to get rid of that problem that’s going to be permanent.”

Program helps older people looking for work

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Dan Toth is certain of one thing: He has no desire to be a Wal-Mart greeter.

But armed with a master’s degree and a lifetime of work experience, Toth, 59, is finding it difficult to get a job in this economy.

So he’s turned to Pima Council on Aging’s Mature Worker Connection for help.

“It’s kind of painful to think of yourself as a mature worker, but I considered it an opportunity to build a network,” said Toth, who has worked as a remodeling project manager, a business developer and a youth corrections worker. He also owned his own business.

“Part of my dream job would be working at management level at a nonprofit or a private company,” Toth said.

Since January, Toth, the married father of four grown children, has been optimistic about three jobs. He’s had one interview, and no job. He spends his free time volunteering.

Roger Forrester, program administrator for the free Mature Worker Connection, said calls from older residents like Toth who are looking for work have quadrupled in the past 18 months.

“People are worried about outliving their retirement income,” he said. “These are people who thought they had it made. They are desperate for work, at a time when employers are laying off.”

The program, among the first of its kind in the country, has an annual budget of $143,000 and relies on volunteers. It is unknown how cuts in the state budget will impact the program, but Jim Murphy, president and CEO of PCOA, said it is likely that it could lose some funding.

About 750 older workers have been placed in jobs since the program began in 2006.

“They come from every walk of life and profession,” said Forrester, who started the program after he retired. “We’ve had doctors, a judge – you name it.”

Half are seeking jobs in their former professions. The others are looking for new careers.

About 54 percent of people in the program are women, some who have never been employed.

The program is open to workers ages 50 and older. Some applicants are in their 80s.

Forrester said many older job hunters feel “invisible.”

The program connects potential workers with free job training and helps employers understand the value of mature workers, Forrester said.

Currently, 507 employers are registered, including Raytheon and the University of Arizona.

Toth, meanwhile, hopes the right company will appreciate his years of experience.

“You have to be optimistic just to get through it,” he said. “It’s really a tough time out there.”

‘It’s so hard to find people who will help you out, and it sort of leaves you stranded.’

Loma Brown

Tenuous independence

Friday, May 8th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

She survived the Great Depression, the deaths of two husbands and breast cancer.

Goldie Breeding, 86, is one self-sufficient woman.

But the economy has Breeding fearing for her independence. While she is able to manage her expenses by clipping coupons and hunting for bargains, Breeding worries that a new prescription for her spinal arthritis or any other expense might prohibit her from living on her own.

“Food is my big concern,” says Breeding, who lives on Social Security and a small pension. “It’s gotten so expensive. And if I have to go on medication, I don’t know what I would do. I’d probably have to sell and move in with someone.”

Breeding is lucky. She knows any of her six children would be happy for her to move in.

But she doesn’t want to leave the mobile home where she has lived since she retired in 1999 at age 75.

“I eat what I want to, I watch what I want to,” says the retired home health care nurse. “I want to remain independent as long as possible. My family needs privacy, and so do I.”

She worries about how the economy is hurting her older friends who have no one to turn to.

In recent years, Breeding, a Tucson resident since 1947, has received help with unexpected expenses from Pima Council on Aging.

After a knee replacement in 2003, the agency installed a ramp, so she would not have to walk the eight steps up to her mobile home.

PCOA built a new roof four years ago after a storm ripped off a portion. “My insurance wouldn’t cover the roof, and it’s so expensive to fix these old mobile homes,” she said.

The agency helped her get a bracelet that she can use to alert authorities if she falls and needs assistance. The spinal arthritis causes Breeding to easily lose her balance.

Each time, her family has made a donation to the agency, she said.

Breeding relies on Van Tran or her children for rides to the doctor, church or shopping. She shops at four grocery stores, looking for the best value.

Breeding, who was born in 1922, was one of nine children, seven who survived past childhood.

Her father developed typhoid fever in Missouri, and the family moved to Phoenix in 1926 when Goldie was 4. She has vivid memories of the Depression.

“We were fortunate to live on a dairy farm, so we had milk and vegetables,” she said.

She recalls a time when her family had no butter, having sold all the cream from the farm.

“Daddy was selling everything he could. Mama said we had to go downtown and sign up to get margarine. I didn’t know what that was.”

Her parents always managed.

“We were young and we didn’t realize how tough times were,” Breeding said. “Mama always had a pot of stew. She made good bread and we always had a pot of beans.”

Goldie married in 1939 at age 17. She and husband James had two children. But James died, leaving her a widow at age 22.

She remarried, and she and husband Herschell had four children. At age 50, Goldie was again widowed when Herschell died from a heart attack in 1971.

It was then she went to work for the first time, and loved the years she spent caring for others.

Breeding has six children, 14 grandchildren, 12 great-grandchildren and six great-great-grandchildren. “I’m so rich,” she said.

She predicts the economy will get worse before it gets better.

“I call it a depression,” she said. “I lived through one and that’s what it feels like to me.”

She turns to her faith in hard times, and hopes her prayers will be answered.

“I’m praying that this new president can turn things around, but he has a lot on his shoulders,” she said.

“Every night I pray for the United States to be back to where it was when I was raising children. I want Tucson to be back to the way it was.”

HELP FOR SENIORS

Pima Council on Aging provides services to seniors and their caregivers. It is the designated Area Agency on Aging and acts as a conduit, coordinating services for older adults through other local agencies.

Among the services provided are meal delivery and congregate meals; personal budgeting assistance; employment services; transportation; home repair and housekeeping; and personal care services.

For more information, call 790-7262 or go to pcoa.org.

A fair place to show

Friday, April 24th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

For eight months, most of Zack Levin’s free time has been spent with Bill and Butch.

He’s fed them, groomed them, trained them and cared for their needs.

And now, he has to say goodbye.

Bill and Butch are steers that Zack, a 15-year-old freshman at Sabino High School, has prepared to show at the Pima County Fair.

For six years, Zack has been a member of Littletown Ranchers 4-H Club, one of about 30 clubs in Pima County.

He’s matter-of-fact about letting these two guys go.

“It can be a little difficult, depending on how attached you get, but it’s not difficult for me at all,” Zack said.

His mom will be the one weeping when they send Bill off Saturday.

“Zack looks at the business of it more than the emotional attachment,” said Laura Levin, who was involved in 4-H in her youth.

Bill was shown Thursday and won third in his market class. Zack also won a blue ribbon for showmanship.

Bill will be sold Saturday at the Pima County Junior Livestock Auction at the fair.

Butch, whom Zack entered in the carcass category, was slaughtered earlier this week. He earned a reserve champion carcass award.

Since August, when he bought the two animals, Zack has spent about 15 hours a week caring for the steers, who lived on his grandparents’ property on the far Northeast Side. He often rode his bike before and after school to care for the animals.

Daily activities included training the hair coat by washing, combing and blow drying; walking Bill to get him used to it; working with his feet so he can place them during the show and feeding the animals sweet feed, corn, oats and Bermuda hay twice a day.

Judging is based on showmanship and the look of the finished steer.

Zack said steer and swine, which he raised previously, have distinct personalities. “They’re just like people. “They have emotions. They get mad. They plot their revenge. They cry.”

He said Bill is a bit unpredictable. “He’s nice when he wants to be.”

Bill, who weighs 1,060 pounds, is a bit small. But Zack hopes to get about $3 per pound at Saturday’s auction, which would pay for the purchase of the two steers. But the Levins are concerned the economy will result in lower prices at auction.

Animals often are sold to business owners like car dealer Jim Click, construction firms or companies including Bashas’ Supermarkets. Some donate the meat to charity.

In addition to showing the steer, Zack entered the photography and cooking competitions.

Last year, he won Best of Show for a photo he took of a bridge in Florence, Italy.

This year, he won two purple ribbons – outstanding – for photos, one of his dog, Charlie.

He also won a purple ribbon for his free-form apple tart and three blues – very good – for two varieties of cinnamon rolls and his crescent rolls.

Zack said he often cooks with his grandmother, Jan Levin.

He said he will consider farming and ranching in the future, but he’s not sure the market will be strong.

He is also considering starting his own restaurant or opening Zack’s Mustang Service, where he can work on his favorite car.

Laura Levin is happy her son chose to be involved in 4-H.

“It was a big thing for me when I was growing up,” she said. “I have to say 4-H is is one of the best things out there for kids. There’s so much to get involved with, and it teaches you responsibility.”

Zack said 4-H members occasionally get teased by other kids. But it doesn’t bother him.

“I enjoy how it helps with your leadership skills,” he said. “You learn a lot about animals and marketing and you build a lot of friendships. A lot of my family has done it, and it’s good to carry on.”

Tucson Citizen photo intern Heather Raftery contributed to this report.

IF YOU GO

What: Pima County Fair

When: Daily through Sunday. Main gate opens at noon Friday and 10 a.m. Saturday and Sunday. Closing time is from 11:30 p.m.-12:30 a.m.

Where: Pima County Fairgrounds, 11300 S. Houghton Road

Price: $7 general, $2 for ages 6-10, free to children 5 and younger. Parking is $5.

Info: 762-FAIR, pimacountyfair.com

LIVESTOCK AUCTION

Bill, who is one of about 55 steers shown at the Pima County Fair this year, will be auctioned Saturday.

Large animal stock will be auctioned at 11:45 a.m. The small animal stock auction is at 10:30 a.m. Sunday.

Both events take place under the Pima County Fair Ramada.

Animals will be on display throughout the weekend.

For more information on the auction, call Pat Selke at 749-3531.

PIMA COUNTY 4-H

For more information on getting involved, call 626-5161 or go to http://ag.arizona.edu/pima/4-h/ index.html.

LIGHTEN UP

Friday, April 17th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Tell a kid it’s time for cardiovascular endurance training, and you’re likely to get a blank stare.

But offer up a little “Dance Dance Revolution,” Wii Fit, a rock-climbing wall, jumping castle or even toddler yoga – and your little one is far more likely to get moving.

Finding ways to make family fitness fun is the goal of Saturday’s free Healthy Kids Day, sponsored by the YMCA of Southern Arizona and Pima County Public Library.

With nearly 1 in 5 American 4-year-olds being obese and a third of all teens overweight, the message is more important than ever, said Berlin Loa, program outreach director at the Jacobs/City YMCA Program Center.

“In 1991, we saw a trend had begun of children sitting still, with video games and TV as the baby sitter,” Loa said.

The shift in how children spend free time has resulted in heavier kids, and the YMCA and library are trying to lighten things up.

Fun events will be held Saturday at three YMCAs:

• 8:30 a.m. to noon, Northwest center, 7770 N. Shannon Road

• 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Ott center, 401 S. Prudence Road

• 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Jacobs center, 1010 W. Lind St.

Events also will be held at library branches throughout Tucson.

Activities include a kids’ “Y-Athalon,” with swimming, walking and running; modified Junior Olympics; a jumping castle obstacle course; family relays; a checkers game using baby carrots and broccoli pieces that you can eat after capturing them; electronic sports wall games; toddler yoga; a climbing wall; Zumba dance aerobics; and “Dance Dance Revolution” tournaments.

Parents can take home a free Healthy Family Home Starter Kit that includes games, activities and self-tests related to health, activity levels, nutrition and spending family time together.

At least 3,000 Tucsonans are expected to take part in the events, which are held in more than 1,700 YMCAs nationwide.

Loa said the program is especially important during the economic downturn, when more kids are expected to stay home this summer instead of attending camps or sports programs.

“We will show families fun things to do at home, whether you live in a house, an apartment or a mobile home,” she said.

“The key is to make it fun.”

More Fitness Fun

Looking for other ways to inspire your family to get healthy?

The Tucson Children’s Museum is holding A Wealth of Health, Family Health and Wellness Fair, also on Saturday.

Live entertainment, hands-on activities, prizes, healthy snacks, a jumping castle, Wii Fit and more will be featured.

When: 10:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. Saturday

Where: 200 S. Sixth Ave.

Price: Free admission; healthful food available for purchase

Info: 792-9985, tucsonchildrensmuseum.org

If you go

What: YMCA Healthy Kids Day

Where: Three YMCA branches and several Pima County Public Library branches (see story)

When: Saturday, various times

Price: Free

Info: For a schedule of YMCA events and times, go to www.tucsonymca.org/events/ hkd.php. For a schedule of library events, go online to library.pima.gov/about/news/?id=1251.

Teen Iron Chef

Are you a kid who likes to create edible concoctions?

Show off your skills at the Healthy Kids Day Teen Iron Chef competition Saturday from noon to 2 p.m. at the John Valenzuela Youth Center, 1550 S. Sixth Ave.

Teams of six teens will battle one another in creating a healthful snack within a set time.

The winning snack will be chosen from a panel of celebrity judges, and prizes will be awarded.

The competition is organized by University of Arizona library science students, said Sol Gomez, librarian at the Sam Lena-South Tucson Branch Library, who is helping with the event.

Participants won’t know until competition starts what ingredients are available to them.

“They will come up with healthy snacks, something they could put together when they come home from school, that taste great,” Gomez said.

To register for the contest, call 594-5265.

Midtown: Tucson’s melting pot

Saturday, April 11th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer
2,000 REFUGEES IN AREA

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen

They come from around the globe, making a home in the heart of Tucson.

In the past decade, about 2,000 newly arrived refugees have settled in midtown Tucson, looking to start a new life free from violence, persecution and poverty.

The melding of cultures is evident in the adults and children who stroll down East Grant Road, near Dodge Boulevard, and in the classrooms at Blenman Elementary, Doolen Middle and Catalina Magnet High schools.

Families from Iraq, Afghanistan, Africa and other nations live side by side in apartment complexes, settled there by agencies that assist refugees.

Adjusting to a new language, culture and community is challenging for these displaced and often traumatized people.

Helping them can create challenges for local agencies, police and schools.

Now, the economic crisis all Americans are wrestling with has become their challenge, too.

Krishna Khadka, 24, has a part-time job at a mall food court, but it is not enough to support him and seven family members who resettled here. He is searching for full-time work, filling out an application Friday at Goodwill Industries, 2907 N. First Ave.

Manager Liz Donaldson explained the different jobs at the resale store to Khadka, but told him she gets at least 50 applications a week.

“It has been hard to live here,” said Khadka, a refugee from Bhutan in South Asia, who was a high school teacher before coming to Tucson last year.

He came with his wife, Phul, and daughter, Crissma, 2, as well as his parents, brother, sister-in-law and niece.

His friend, Uttam Rizal, also a refugee from Bhutan, was with Khadka as he filled out the job application. Rizal, 30, had no trouble finding work after arriving in January. He was hired as a night auditor at a Tucson hotel.

But his hours were cut, and he works only three nights a week.

“It’s not enough money,” Rizal said. “I have many friends who are having trouble finding work. It is quite difficult.”

Ken Briggs, executive director of International Rescue Committee in Tucson, which resettles refugees here, said before the economic downturn, most refugees found jobs adequate to support themselves within 30 to 45 days.

Now it’s taking six to nine months, he said.

Hotels and resorts historically provided jobs for refugees, as did small manufacturers and stores like Target.

Now those businesses have cut jobs, and the ones available often go to skilled workers laid off from other jobs.

Briggs said that in the past, companies have been happy to hire refugees, who generally are loyal, hard-working employees.

“But now they don’t have the money to hire them,” he said.

Jill Rich, of the Jewish Refugee Resettlement of Southern Arizona said the agency is still finding jobs for refugees.

But the program is not placing many refugees at one business, in case it closes, she said.

Refugees do get assistance from the U.S. Resettlement Project. But the 18 months of financial help they used to get has been cut to one month.

Briggs said that in the past six months, IRC resettled 145 people, including 23 families. It is one of four Tucson agencies that resettle refugees fleeing Iraq, Bhutan, Somalia, Central Africa, Cuba and other countries.

He said for the most part, refugees settle comfortably.

“We rarely hear of any complaints,” Briggs said. “We work with (apartment) managers and clients so they are comfortable and safe.”

Briggs said some bullying and teasing occurs because refugees dress and look differently.

But for the most part, “the Tucson community has been welcoming to refugees,” he said.

The agency also connects refugees with English classes and mental health services.

The IRC has reported that almost all of the 1,500 refugees they resettled in Tucson since 1997 originally moved into midtown, with most living in an area bounded by 29th and Glenn streets, Alvernon Way and Kolb Road, along with 500 refugees resettled by other agencies.

Becky Noel, a community service officer with the Tucson Police Department, works with refugees living in midtown apartments.

She teaches them personal safety – why they shouldn’t stand in the middle of Grant during rush hour, for example – and helps them understand police are there to help.

“When there are people from Iraq, Afghanistan and other countries, police to them are not good,” Noel said. “They are not to be trusted. They beat them. Over there, when police show up, you run the other way.”

Recently, a refugee child fell off her bike. An officer stopped to help, “and the kid took off, running and screaming,” Noel said.

Since refugees tend to be fearful, they are hesitant to call police when they become crime victims, she said.

And if they do call, there is often a language barrier. Usually, no one within TPD can speak the many languages represented in the midtown area. Often, police must rely on people from the neighborhood to translate, without being sure that the translation is accurate, she said.

To help refugees understand that police are here to help, the department will hold a fair for refugees May 2, from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. at Reid Park. The department will have officers from SWAT, the dog unit, bicycle unit and other departments.

Refugees are also encouraged to go on police ride-alongs, “to see what we do,” Noel said.

She said some refugee teens get picked on by gang kids. Sometimes they fight back by forming their own gangs.

“But I’ve had more issues with one refugee group not liking another,” she said.

She said refugees with different religious and political views can end up living in the same apartment building, and sometimes have to be separated.

But for the most part, refugees live together peacefully, Noel said.

City Councilwoman Nina Trasoff said the mix of people living in her ward adds to the richness of the community.

“It’s part of what America does for people,” she said. “Sometimes it’s good to step back and see the hope other people have for themselves through what we have in this country. We lose sight as to what a magnificent system we have.”

When Trasoff’s father immigrated to the U.S. from Ukraine in 1921 at age 6, his first English words were “You’re it,” having learned them playing tag.

She said children give her hope that all groups can live and work together.

“These kids from all over the world come together and they’re just kids,” she said. “They figure it out.”

Calling Tucson Home

According to the Arizona State Refugee Resettlement Program, 877 refugees resettled in Tucson in 2008.

From 1990 to 2008, 7,524 refugees resettled here.

Boy helps family in honor of his dad

Saturday, April 4th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

When 12-year-old Alan Villaseñor took to the school stage Friday to help a family battling cancer, his dad was right there with him.

Alan lost his father – 42-year-old Tucson chemist Agustin Villaseñor – to brain cancer last July.

Now, in honor of his dad, the Tucson boy is helping other families in their fight against the disease.

Alan presented fellow La Cima Middle School student Kimberly Nguyen and her parents with a check for $800. The 11-year-old’s father – Long Nguyen, 47 – is battling cancer in his brain, lungs, liver and pancreas.

“They’re down to their last 40 bucks right now,” Alan told his peers and teachers at an assembly at La Cima, 5600 N. La Cañada Drive.

Alan hoped the family could use the money for medicine, food and other expenses.

“I hope it helps you guys a lot,” he told the Nguyens.

Eunice Nguyen, 40, wiped away tears after she and her husband stepped down from the stage after accepting the check.

She said her family, which also has two children in high school, will use the money to make a house payment and for other expenses.

“I can’t believe this happened,” she said. “It’s doesn’t seem real.”

“It’s so good,” said her husband, a refugee from Vietnam who worked as a cook in a Chinese restaurant before becoming ill last year.

Principal Gail Gault said Alan’s kindness “epitomizes what La Cima students are all about.”

“Alan has done an amazing thing,” she said. “You hear all the bad stories about youth. This is a good thing.”

Alan got the idea for starting the fund in a class that helps students prepare for college. He was inspired to get involved in community service. He wanted to honor his dad while helping families of cancer patients who are struggling financially.

He recalls overhearing his mom’s worries about coming up with $2,000 needed for chemotherapy treatments.

Alan started the nonprofit Agustin Villaseñor Memorial Cancer Fund.

He has sold about 500 colorful “Knock Out Cancer” rubber wrist bands for $2 each. He sent e-mails to local businesses and received donations from Jim Click, Dobbs Honda and Casino Del Sol.

He plans to award a check to another family soon.

Alan said he felt his dad’s presence alongside him onstage as he made the award to the Nguyens.

“He was a good dad,” Alan said. “He was always helpful and funny. He would help me with my math homework.”

Seven-year-old Adel Villaseñor recalled how their dad – who emigrated from Cananea, Son. – would tickle them with his giant mustache.

Their dad managed to stay upbeat during his illness. Alan recalled, “He acted like everything was fine when it was a living hell for us.

“I’m just happy and excited that I can help another family,” said Alan, who dreams of becoming a graphic designer.

Patricia Villaseñor, 42, is proud of her son. She says she knows her husband is proud, too.

“He’s always with us,” she said of Agustin, wiping away tears.

‘Alan has done an amazing thing. You hear all the bad stories about youth. This is a good thing.’

GAIL GAULT,

principal of La Cima Middle School

Students finding a voice

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Some fled the ravages of war and political persecution. Others came for a chance at a life free from poverty and discrimination. These refugee and immigrant children ended up in the heart of Tucson, at Catalina Magnet High School, 3645 E. Pima St.

They tell their stories of struggle and survival through “A New Country, A New Life: Tucson Teens Share Their Experiences with War and Immigration,” created through Catalina’s Finding Voice Project.

“When I was in India, I used to go door to door with a bowl begging for food, but was often turned away with a grumbling stomach,” Catalina senior Mariana Madden, 19, wrote.

“I myself lost a parent. It was a death which no child should see – a sick, graphic, horrible death,” she continued. “After many years of waiting to be adopted, I finally came to America. There was no one who spoke my language.

“Things changed when I came to Catalina Magnet High School. I started to reveal myself and open the doors I had shut for many years.”

Madden’s writing is part of a poster project created last year through Finding Voice. Nineteen of the posters will be shown through April 29 in storefront windows at One North Fifth apartments, 1 N. Fifth Ave.

Students wrote of experiences with war, poverty and violence in their home countries, and shared their stories of immigration.

They worked in teams to create photographic portraits that reflect their lives, experiences and dreams.

Some are working with the Tucson Pima Arts Council to document the impact their art has on the public. It is one of three projects in Americans for the Arts’ “Animating Democracy” Art and Civic Engagement Impact Initiative. Others projects are in New York and Los Angeles.

Finding Voice is a literary and visual arts program, led by teacher Julie Kasper and photographer- educator Josh Schachter. It is funded by the Every Voice in Action Foundation and Tucson Pima Arts Council.

It was established in 2006 to help refugee and immigrant youth at Catalina develop literacy skills by researching, photographing, writing and speaking about social issues.

About 40 Catalina students are participating in the project this year. Most have been in the U.S. less than five years. One arrived seven months ago.

“Dreams and Change” is the topic students selected this year. Some are creating digital stories. Others are making a film. One is organizing a conference on immigrant rights.

Kasper said the class is “a small United Nations.”

“They bring so many experiences with them,” she said. “It’s painful experience but it will help them to be more open minded and make a difference in this world.”

Schachter said the art produced “has been like unwrapping a gift.”

“They not only discovered themselves, they are helping Tucsonans discover a Tucson they might otherwise not see,” he said.

Tam Le, 18, is making a movie about racism. He left Vietnam last year to help care for his grandparents here.

“I miss my friends, my country, my traditions,” he said. “People in my neighborhood stay in their houses and don’t talk to anyone. I think they don’t want to talk to refugees and immigrants.”

Patience Gelee, 17, moved here from Liberia. “People were dying because of the war. My mother wanted a better life for her children.”

She was happy to come to the U.S. “I was coming here to achieve my dream to become a doctor.”

Vianey Valenzuela, 15, and her family moved here from Sonora. They are working toward becoming citizens.

“People should have an opportunity to get the American dream of better jobs and a better life,” she said.

Suleiman Siddiqi, 16, and his family settled here a year ago through the International Rescue Committee. Before he was born, his family fled Afghanistan for India.

“It’s horrible,” he said. “I haven’t seen my grandfather or grandmother or aunts and uncles and cousins. I cannot go back to my country.”

He hopes his words and photos will make an impact.

“I hope, if people listen, if they listen to my voice, it will prove the American dream is alive.”

Immigrants finding a voice in Tucson

IF YOU GO

What: Display of posters in Finding Voice Project’s “A New Country, A New Life: Tucson Teens Share Their Experiences with War and Immigration”

When: daily through April 29

Where: storefront windows at One North Fifth, 1 N. Fifth Ave.

Other photos and artwork are part of Tucson Youth Week’s “ARTivism Youth Art and Engagement” exhibit at Rocket Gallery, 270 E. Congress St., open through April 29; 4 to 6 p.m.Tuesdays through Fridays and 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Saturdays

Price: free

Info: findingvoiceproject.org; tucsonpimaartscouncil.org; tucsonyouthweek.com

STARS SHINE in the Canyon

Friday, March 27th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Soak in Tucson treasures Saturday as the Tucson Arizona Boys Chorus and other musicians entertain under the stars at Sabino Canyon.

The 14th annual Music in the Canyon benefits the Friends of Sabino Canyon’s work to enhance and protect the area, which is recovering from flooding in 2006.

“There’s a beautiful sunset and great music in a gorgeous setting,” said Dave Bushell, president of the volunteer organization.

Last year, the event moved to the spring after it was rained out in December. It was such a success, the group is keeping it in March for now, Bushell said.

Glowing luminarias will lead guests on the quarter-mile trek from the Visitor Center to the Lowell Complex, where the event will be held from 5 to 9 p.m. It is wheelchair accessible.

The Boys Chorus has performed at Music in the Canyon since its inception, said Julian Ackerley, chorus director.

“The setting is extraordinary,” Ackerley said. “The boys’ clear voices ring through the entire area filling the night air with song. It is definitely one of their favorite appearances each year.”

The boys, who will be on stage from 7 to 8:15 p.m., will perform a variety of selections, including contemporary pieces, folk songs, signature western songs and ballads and patriotic classics. They also will demonstrate trick rodeo roping.

In addition to the Boys Chorus, other performers include The Desert Sons, a western trio; Fiddlin’ Foresters, the official old-time string band of the U.S. Forest Service; and Arco, with Dale Clark, performing a mix of adult contemporary, smooth jazz and recognizable favorites.

During the evening, visitors can take a peek at the stars through telescopes set up by the Tucson Amateur Astronomy Organization.

Kids can meet Smokey Bear and listen as a storyteller brings local legends to life.

A silent auction offers resort packages donated by Loews Resorts. Canyon Ranch is also offering a spa day package for two, and other local businesses and artists have donated gift certificates, jewelry, art and home decor. Refreshments will be available.

Dress warmly and bring a flashlight.

Bushell expects as many as 2,500 to attend. He said proceeds will benefit the Friends of Sabino Canyon, the nonprofit group that provides manpower and funds to augment Forest Service work.

Music in the Canyon allows Tucsonans to enjoy the glorious setting at night, serenaded by beautiful music, Bushell said.

“This is more of a giving back to the community. If you’ve never gone, you’ve got to be there. It’s such a beautiful thing.”

Starry sky illuminates Music in the Canyon

IF YOU GO

What: 14th annual Music in the Canyon

When: 5 to 9 p.m. Saturday (coincides with Earth Hour 8:30-9:30 p.m.)

Where: Sabino Canyon Recreation Area, 5700 N. Sabino Canyon Road

Price: Suggested donation of $5 per person, $10 per family. Parking is free.

Info: 749-1900, sabinocanyon.org

Protesters march over kid care cuts

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Some needed canes and walkers.

Others pushed strollers.

Grandparents and other family members raising children took to the streets Friday to protest state budget cuts they say are hurting their kids.

“Fight, fight, fight for grandparent’s rights,” participants chanted as they marched.

Carrying signs that read, “Not on the backs of children,” “No more budget cuts” and “Old people rock,” dozens marched the seven blocks from Armory Park, where they held a rally, to the State of Arizona Administration Building, 400 W. Congress St.

About 100 caregivers and children delivered 250 petitions, demanding that legislators restore 20 percent cuts in aid to families caring for the children of relatives. The cuts, made by state legislators last month, impact more than 10,000 Arizona children, according to organizers.

Most often, the reasons that parents cannot care for children include incarceration, addiction, mental illness or death.

“We need all the help we can get, and the Legislature needs to realize it’s cost effective for us to raise good citizens,” said Mary Bliss, 62, who is raising her 14-year-old grandchild.

At the state building, Alice Strosser, 84, handed a box of petitions to Jo Grant, legislative coordinator of the southern Arizona office of the Arizona state Senate and House of Representatives. Grant told Strosser she would deliver the petitions to legislators. Five other caregivers delivered boxes as well.

Strosser raised three grandchildren, and two still live with her and her husband, Robert. They moved in after their mother died of a heart attack at age 37 a dozen years ago. The Strossers spent their life savings raising the kids. She wants to make sure budget cuts won’t hurt other grandparents.

“We’re trying to help other grandparents who come after us, so they won’t have to go through what we went through,” she said.

Not all marching were seniors. Single mom Jymelle Mason, 37, adopted four of her sister’s children and has guardianship of a fifth, along with her own child.

Mason’s sister is in prison, and the children would be in foster care without her.

The cuts will “demolish me,” she said.

“There are other ways out there they can get this money,” she said.

Several suggested that cuts to the corrections budget would better serve the state.

“They are taking the money away from the children, not from the people who put them in this situation,” said Mary Glover, 45, who adopted three great nephews. “Most of their parents are in prison, and they still get their money.”

Dillon Bledsoe, 14, and his brother Dakota Bledsoe, 9, spent part of their spring break marching. “It’s to stop the cuts,” Dillon said.

Their grandmother, Becky Brown, 63, said the boys’ father is in prison and the mother “can’t even take care of herself.”

She said her grandsons would be in foster care had she not taken them in seven years ago.

Budget cuts have resulted in her getting $50 less per month, money she spent on groceries and clothes for the boys.

Angel Johnson, 4, carried a sign nearly as big as he is as he marched with his grandmother, Carmelita Sanchez, 69.

Rosa Borbon, 62, is raising her granddaughter, Mary Rose Borbon, 8, whom she adopted. The two marched side by side.

“They are our future,” the grandmother said.

At the rally before the march, Fred Chaffee, president and chief executive officer of Arizona’s Children Association, encouraged kin caregivers to stand up for their rights.

He said the KARE Family Center in Tucson, which provides support to kin caregivers, tracked the 2,100 children and families served in 2007. Of them, 70 percent of the children were not in state care, saving the state $4.2 million, Chaffee said.

Jim Murphy of the Pima Council on Aging said grandparents need financial assistance.

“It is the right thing to do to support grandparents raising grandchildren,” Murphy said.

Grandparents, family members protest cuts to state assistance

For more information

The KARE Family Center of Tucson-Pima County

4710 E. 29th St., No. 7

Tucson, AZ 85711

(520) 323-4476 Ext 102

kares@arizonaschildren.org

The toughest jobs . . .

Friday, March 20th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

Maxine Acevedo and her 6-year-old cuddle on the couch under a cozy blanket, a sweet moment for mother and son.

But it isn’t without worry.

Maxine is unemployed. She was laid off from her job as a social worker Feb. 27, after massive state budget cuts gutted the Child & Family Resources program.

Despite filling out dozens of applications, the divorced mom of three has not gotten a single call back.

“I’ve never been laid off,” Acevedo said. “I thought I would get a job right away.”

Acevedo has shared the details of her unemployment with her sons. But she hopes not to scare them.

“It’s very tough, but I’m trying to be strong for my kids,” the Tucson native said. “I don’t think they realize what’s going on financially. But they know I’m trying.”

Keeping kids in the know without panicking them is key for parents who have been laid off, says Tucson pediatrician and author Marilyn Heins.

She said helping children through a difficult time requires parents to first take care of themselves.

“When it comes to emotional strength, you have to take care of yourself to have it for your child.”

She said parents are allowed a couple of days of the “economic flu” after a layoff.

But they must rebound quickly.

“You must pick yourself up and be the picture of of strength you were when you had a job,” Heins said.

“You must not go into indulgency mode. You have to look within for your inner strength. It’s there. Parents can’t afford to mope around the house for very long.”

The message must be clear, Heins said. “You have to let kids know things will get better and the most important thing is we have each other.”

Heins suggests being clear to school-age kids about what things the family can no longer afford – music lessons, new hockey equipment.

Older kids, starting in about fourth grade, can brainstorm ways to save money, as well as ways the family can have fun without spending money.

Children who are stressed over financial worries can either become very quiet or will misbehave, Heins said. She advises parents to be concerned when a pattern develops.

Parents should, within reason, share the facts with children.

“They are going to think something worse is happening and that they are somehow responsible,” Heins said. “It’s much better to share it with them.”

And don’t let there be any surprises. “If you know you are going to lose the house, you have to prepare them. You can’t wait for the moving van to show up.”

Heins said single parents such as Acevedo especially feel the devastation of losing a job.

Acevedo spent Monday with her youngest son, Thomas Peele, on his first day of spring break. Her older sons – D.J., 16, and Devin, 10 – were at their dad’s house.

Her kids know there will be no trips for now to the movies or the toy store. And they know there is a chance they might have to leave their two-bedroom apartment on the Northwest Side to move in with Acevedo’s mother.

As a social worker, Acevedo helped mostly single moms find jobs and resources, and manage the stress in their lives.

“Now it’s me on the other side,” she said.

When the kids are in school, Acevedo takes her laptop to the library for Internet access. For some of the jobs she has sought, companies have received 200 résumés.

She knows she might have to take any job possible, perhaps in the medical field.

“That’s not where my heart it. It’s always been in helping families.”

But she’s trying to stay positive.

“I’m just hoping something happens,” she said. “I cannot afford to not have a job.”

The toughest jobs . . .

Tips for laid-off parents

• Talk to your children about what is happening at a level they can understand.

• Don’t be afraid to tell kids how you are feeling. Share the feelings as well as the facts.

• Encourage them to help find ways to save money, such as cutting coupons.

• Focus on the positive. Make a list of everything good that has happened in your life.

• Stay connected. Don’t hide. Don’t blame yourself for the layoff.

• Talk to your physician if you get into a slump you can’t get out of.

• Eat healthful food. Take a walk every day. Limit alcohol.

For more advice from Dr. Marilyn Heins, go to www.parentkidsright.com.

Real champions for virtual sports

Friday, March 13th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com

“Two, four, six, eight, who do we appreciate? Helen, Helen, Helen,” chant the fans, waving their pom-poms.

Helen Borgert, 86, steps up and throws, knocking down all 10 bowling pins for a strike.

The crowd goes wild.

Borgert was one of 14 Tucson retirees competing last week in the Nintendo Wii Sports Virtual Tournament of Champions.

Seniors competed in the video gaming system’s bowling, golf, baseball, boxing and tennis at Atria Bell Court Gardens, 6653 E. Carondelet Drive.

The event was a joint project between the Junior League of Tucson and Atria Senior Living residential centers.

Judy Cameron, 68, was excited to compete in tennis and bowling.

“You don’t have to be terrific at it,” she said. “You just have to be involved. And it’s fun.”

Players use a controller to mimic actions performed in sports, such as swinging a tennis racket. The game is fast-paced, with players breaking a sweat.

Laura Hisey of the Junior League dreamed up the tournament after giving a Wii to her husband for Father’s Day.

“My mother-in-law, my father-in-law, my mother, my father, we all played it as a family,” she said. “It was great. I thought how fun would it be to have a citywide tournament for seniors?”

She said the game “creates fun.”

“It helps them to be young again,” Hisey said. “It’s socialization. It’s motivating. It’s teamwork and you’re getting exercise.”

Seniors at the three Atria locations competed in preliminary tournaments. Residents gathered at Bell Court Gardens for the championship.

And they brought fans to cheer on the competitors.

Up for grabs were bragging rights and cash prizes of up to $50.

David Edwards of Bell Court Gardens said some of the 132 residents have been playing Wii for more than a year.

He said the game allows seniors to enjoy sports like bowling, tennis and golf, even if they are unable to participate in the real activity.

“You can do the bowling without renting shoes and you don’t have to lug around a 16-pound ball,” he said. “A lot of folks had to give up tennis or bowling for health reasons, and this has brought it back.”

He said residents can check out the game and play it any time of the day or night.

“If they are not sleeping well and want to play at midnight, they can,” he said.

He said the exercise benefits of the Wii complement exercise programs at the center.

Bonnie Jean Barrett, 85, never bowled a game in her life. But she’s been having fun bowling on Wii.

“It helps you keep active,” she said.

Freddy Fredrick, 81, has been bowling since the 1950s. Wii allows him to continue to enjoy the sport.

“What’s so good is the ball isn’t so heavy,” he said.

Lela Bauman, 84, was sidelined for the tournament, in a neon pink cast after foot surgery.

But she was there to cheer on her friends.

“I’m very athletic, and it’s a great outlet,” said Bauman, who has played tennis since she was 11 and has been playing Wii for a year.

“It’s great because anyone can play it.”

The winners

Bowling

1st Place: Judy Cameron, 68

2nd Place:Claire Nasch, 87

3rd Place: Charleen Bratcher, 76

Golf

1st Place: Leland Barker, 83

2nd Place: Dorothy Kalil, 88

3rd Place: Tied: Jacqui Caird, 81 and Judy Cameron, 68

Tennis

1st Place: Don Monagham, 87

2nd Place: Lee Billman, 81

3rd Place: Judy Cameron, 68

ARIZONA SCREENINGS

Friday, March 6th, 2009

Citizen Staff Writer

Arizona newborns are screened for 28 disorders, plus hearing loss.

Most commonly, a nurse takes a few drops of blood from a baby’s heel on the first day of life.

The hospital sends the sample to the newborn screening lab. If the results are unusual, the baby’s doctor is notified immediately and the doctor may request additional testing.

The Arizona screening panel includes:

• 6 amino acid disorders

• 5 fatty acid oxidation disorders

• 9 organic acid disorders

• Biotinidase deficiency

• Classic galactosemia

• Congenital hypothyroidism

• Congenital adrenal hyperplasia

• 3 hemoglobin diseases

• Cystic fibrosis

• Hearing loss

The screening panel follows the recommendations of the American Academy of Pediatrics, said Laura Oxley of the Arizona Department of Health Services, which oversees screening. According to Hunter’s Hope foundation, Arizona is the bottom three for for the number of disorders tested. The highest, Minnesota, tests for 54 disorders

Hospitals bill insurance providers for the cost of testing. For other tests, parents must make arrangements privately.

Between January and October 2008, 92 Arizona babies were identified to have 14 different serious, treatable medical conditions, according to DHS. The most common disorder was primary congenital hypothyroidism, with 43 cases found in that time period.

All 92 babies were helped to get the treatments needed, according to DHS.

GABRIELLE FIMBRES

gfimbres@tucsoncitizen.com