As a Celebrity Sex Psychic, it only made sense to ask Belinda Bentley about her take on celebrity infidelity among other current topics circulating in today’s media.
Belinda, you are a believer in sexual freedom. What are your thoughts in general about infidelity in marriage and relationships?
I have actually met people who enhanced their relationship by cheating surprisingly. It was like taking a vacation, but the aspect of that I don’t like is the lying and danger that comes with it. You need to respect all partners by using protection and then if something goes wrong you have to own up to it and be honest with your significant other. It seems like hard work to cheat!
In this century we have a new reality it is easier to walk into a bar and say “hey I just want to have sex,” or “I am looking for an open relationship.” Women will have no issues getting a taker. Men, I will be honest have a bit harder time, but it’s still not that hard. You may have to ask three women instead of one. The biggest issue comes when someone agrees with terms and then fall in love with the person not seeking a monogamous relationship and expect that person to change! It happens a lot. So, I get it. I get why some cheat and why some lie, but it never honors you or that person to do so when we have so many choices now day. I couldn’t imagine lying about cheating and hiding who I really am to stay with someone who doesn’t understand the real me! I feel like I am an adult, not a child that has to lie to my parents. Don’t these people that cheat ever feel it is beneath them to cheat and lie about it?
What are your thoughts behind the recent celebrity infidelities of Jesse James and Tiger Woods?
When I have looked at pictures of Sandra [Bullock] over the years over and over I would ask myself, “What is she doing…this is not going to turn out well.” I didn’t see any love there and was confused at why they were together. Her eyes look miserable. Maybe I was seeing the future, but she is most definitely better off single!
Tiger Woods and Elin, have a better chance at working it out because Tiger is embarrassed by the attention these women brought to his marriage. One day he knew he’d have to come clean, but not like this. I feel there really is change coming from him, but why should she have to chance it?
Jesse and Tiger did the things they felt were normal. They had sex. Are they bad for it, No, not at all. It’s the way they went about it, that intentionally hurts others, the mistresses and the wives. It takes two to tango, but I’d be more upset with the husbands – they took the vows not the mistresses. This is why I am not a big fan of marriage. We are animals with more intelligence then maybe a dog or cat, but we still do the same instinctual things, yet we take these unrealistic life long vows that try and separate man from animal. Vows should be renewed yearly in all fairness.
A couple years ago, you notoriously gave Dave Navarro’s penis a thumbs up on his show, Spread TV. Tell me a little about that experience. Are there other celebrities who have gotten this thumbs up from you that you are able to share?
It was the size and how he handles it. I gave him a thumbs up because he knows how to work it and willing to learn. He is the only celeb to actually get my thumbs up so far.
Many people around the world are experiencing what is known as the 11:11 phenomenon. Paranormalist Uri Geller has formed some interesting opinions on this phenomenon. What are your thoughts on the meaning behind 11:11?
I don’t feel there is anything behind it. I see the clock when it is 3:33 a lot. Sometimes it is 1:11. Many people have told me they have had the same experience. I believe that it is symbolism of what we have been taught. Jesus died at 33. So, for some it can be a spiritual number, but it can only be interpreted by the on looker at that time. For others it could be their time of birth, the time someone they loved had passed away, etc.
Some people believe that seeing 11:11 is an indicator that one will soon meet their twin soul or soulmate. Is there a such thing as a soulmate?
The proof is in the pudding. Did it work for those people who thought that? Did they find their soulmate? Most people didn’t. The theory is that people try to find hope in everything that is around them. It makes us strong and unique on this planet. If it makes you feel good and it is a positive feeling when you see any number go with it. The answer is within each and everyone of us.
There are a lot of theories about the date December 21, 2012. What do you think will happen on that date?
Nothing it’s happening now. The earth is shifting just like it did in the times of the dinosaurs. The earth has grown, shifted, cleaned itself, created death and made life. We are still a part of that cycle.
I have been predicting the earthquakes that keep happening this year. I felt they would happen in circles, though I have no idea what that means. The earth is shifting a bit and all of the faults are shifting with it. It reminds me of when a person is sleep and they have to move their arm or foot to get comfortable. The earth moves and settles. It’s been that way since the beginning.
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